Moomoo
Your relationship will only work if you both have abundance.
You are both embracing of each other in different ways.
Embracing a simultaneously comforting, reassuring, strengthening and limiting, constraining, restricting.
Where have you been, what are you doing, who are you with, when are you going to be back, will happen a lot in your relationship. And this is fine as long as neither of you are needy. When one of you isn't doing well in life either financially or emotionally, this becomes a burden to the other person.
If you create remedies for your own internal energetic signature, then you can live in the life of internal and external abundance. When this happens you're embrace and restrictiveness will be mild and and spacious.
No one likes to be restricted into a small metal cage. But if you restrict me into a mansion on My own Private Island that has all my best friends and a fantastic supermarket, hell, you can restrict me all day long.