When your mind knows you should go to sleep but your heart wants to party til 5am, when your heart hates him but your body doesn't, when your actions want to keep playing even when your body tells you it's not healthy, these are all example of aggressively destructive conflicts. In this case, the destruction is coming from the other person. Subtly destructive or superempowering energy is when you can't feel the influence until it's too late. One is obvious, the other is stealth. The table below shows you how the other person effects you across each of the seven aspects of your being. It's time you became aware that you are a pancake stack of 7 different types of pancakes.