Novicic the universe is cruel and narcissistic and at the same time nurturing and selfless. It gives you everything you need to flourish. But then, it does everything it can to destroy you. People meet their enemies because the universe is actively trying to destroy every single person and every single thing. Fire meets water metal meets fire wood meets metal.
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Then think about and do research on the most successful happy people on earth. They are surrounded by people that only help them and empower them. Everybody else, all the unsuccessful unhappy poor people are surrounded by people that destroy them.